A sense of belonging is created by being yourself
Leaning into being who you are is the key to achieving a sense of belonging. I suppose the corollary is that being yourself can also get you rejected more easily, but it also means you’ll be invited into places where you weren’t before because of your integrity.
This is related to the-importance-of-being-yourself.
In some ways it’s like high school: Re-invent yourself over and over until you become you **