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You’re not a parent. You’re a substitute frontal lobe.

I think this is from dr. becky

The idea is that being a parent is simply the act of providing a frontal lobe for your children. Also known as coregulating.

To help a child learn to self regulate... regulate for them by staying calm. Don't suppress.

And this applies to adult children as well since adolescence ends in your mid to late 20’s.